It’s been a long time since I last post up something sexy, isn’t it? It’s been almost a year. Well… I think it’s high time I do something about it. Today, let us talk about the art of pleasuring women that most men neglect to pay attention to: The art of fingering.
Did you know that using your fingers on a woman’s vagina can reap amazing results? Given that you use the right finger techniques, of course.
But before you get to work, however, do take note on one thing: A woman needs to be revved up and ready to go before you can manipulate her vagina with these finger techniques. You can’t just shove your fingers inside her or rub her clitoris without ensuring arousal first. So, remember to turn her on before you introduce her to your hands. The art of fingering is all about being subtle and sensuous. And the art of being subtle and sensuous is all about foreplay.
There’s a couple of interesting technique that men could try to experiment with:
Screwing (no pun intended)
You’ll need to use your index and middle fingers for this one. Sit between her legs and start off with the palm of your hand facing down. Insert your fingers all the way in, then turn your hand so that your palm is facing up and comes out. Repeat it as often as necessary until she reaches orgasm. When you turn your hand so that your palm faces up, tap her clitoris with your thumb each time.
The G-spot indicator
Sitting in front of her with your palm facing up, insert your finger(s) inside her and make a “come hither” motion. Your objective is to try to tap her belly button from the inside, in effect, hitting her G-spot. Don’t get aggressive right away, however. Start off slowly and, judging by her reaction, keep the same pace or increase speed.
The shocker
If you and your woman enjoy experimenting and you’ve explored the back end before, this one may be quite enjoyable for her. While you’re using your index and middle fingers in her vagina, stick your pinkie finger in her anus. While you go in and out, both holes will be stimulated simultaneously.
The slider
This finger technique needs good lubrication. With your index and middle fingers, start off by placing the tips of your fingers on either side of her clitoris, then glide down and make your way inside her vagina. Get back to where you started and keep repeating this maneuver.
Manipulating the vagina to orgasm is not as difficult as you may think. Once you manage to arouse her mind, her body will follow. And of course, you should encourage her to be vocal about what she likes.
The rubber
The clitoris is the place to stimulate for most women. When she’s adequately self-lubricated, or you’ve put some water-based lube on your fingers, use the tips of your index and middle fingers to rub her clitoris softly in a circular motion. Her reaction will let you know that you’re on to something. Continue your pace and slowly begin to increase speed. At no point, however, should you go so fast that you end up losing focus.
The helping hand
If you can manage to use both hands at different tempos, she’ll keep getting wetter. While using the tips of your fingers on one hand to rub her clitoris in a circular motion, use the index and middle fingers of the other hand to glide in and out of her vagina. The multiple sensations will serve to increase her chances of reaching orgasm. It’s not a race, however; you don’t have to go as fast as humanly possible. Just keep a steady rhythm. If she wants it faster, she’ll let you know.
Cleffairy: Now… there’s more reason for you to keep your nails short…
A yet another artistic drawing of a woman with a well lubricated vagina.
