Ladies and gentlemen, do you shave off unwanted facial hair or unwanted body hair? I sure do, cuz I’m rather vain, and sometimes unwanted body hair makes me feel unattractive and not sexy. What more, I’m a swimmer. I swim pretty often, and I think, armpit hair and whatnot does not make good accessory for the swimsuit.
Besides liking to get rid of my own unwanted body hair, I like my man to be clean-shaven too. Apart from the mustache, that is. I like men with mustache. I practically made my husband keep his mustache two years back. LOL…man with mustache are just manly in my opinion. And the kisses tickles and very sensuous too. To me, a well trimmed mustache is a turn on and highly arousing.
I made my husband shave off his beard, though. I can’t stand the sight of growing beard. They’re simply freaky and in my opinion, not quite macho and put unnecessary years on a man. Beards ought to be limited to Santa Claus only, period! Maybe other women prefer their men with both mustache and beard, but not me. I just prefer the beard.
One advantage of having my husband to shave off his beard and trim his mustache is that he’ll apply mens aftershave on his body after shaving. I like this a lot. He always smell pleasant and clean after shaving. Men who wears perfume or cologne as aftershave are not only appealing, but kissable too, don’t you think?
My all time favourite perfume on my husband have to be Eternity by Calvin Klein.
Eternity series are simply fresh, relaxing and rather romantic. Every time the scent of Eternity waft to my nostril, it’ll drive me crazy and makes me want to kiss my husband senseless. Eternity is a classic. And the first bottle of Eternity that I bought for my husband was 8 years ago, when we’re still dating each other in college.
Eternity series made it’s debut in the 80s, and has been a favourite among men and women alike ever since.
Eternity for men is highly reputable for the alluring, simplistic sophistication.The perfume smells of mandarin, lavender, sage, basil, sandalwood, and rosewood. It complement and balance each other beautifully, making for a winning combination of sweet aromas and masculine scents. The scent is highly pleasant and arousing.
All these while, my husband have been using Eternity by Calvin Klein, while I use Pleasure Intense by Estee Lauder. I was never quite a fan of perfume, but my dad bought me Pleasure Intense a few years back, and I’m in love with it til this very day. I don’t wear them daily, though. I wear them occasionally, and when I do, people will ask me what perfume I was wearing.
Unlike Eternity, Pleasures Intense is completely feminine. It’s an intensely feminine celebration of nature, with a seductive side. There’s notes of Le Charme Peony, Moroccan Rose, Jasmine, Vanilla and maple. Seductively romantic and yet does not overwhelm. The perfume, is just right.
I wonder… if any of you use perfume and aftershaves? And I wonder, if perfume will intoxicate you the way it did to me? Care to share your favourite perfume with me? I’ve been thinking about trying other perfumes. Any good suggestion? I prefer perfumes by Calvin Klein and Estee Lauder.
I’ve been eying on Obsession by Calvin Klein and Intuition by Estee Lauder. If you’ve tried any perfumes from either one of it, please share with me.
Cleffairy: Please don’t shave away your mustache. T_T I like it a lot!
I love thee in the morning, when the doves have yet to wake,
I love thee in the night, when everyone is dreaming,
You sooth my aching soul,
And grace me with your inspiration
I love thee with a passion of a hungry lover,
Who always want thee in a sweet embrace,
To have and to hold,
In this life, and forever in the next.
A sonnet by Cleffairy
And what in the name of the benovelent God I’m talking about this time? Why, I was talking about my tea, of course. What else could it be? *naughty grinz* How do you love, your favourite drinks, folks? Is your love and passion towards your food or drinks as as great as mine? LOL…
Anyway, all I want to ask here is; what is you favourite drink? Mine is tea. I’m a tea person and can never take coffee. Coffee gives me terrible palpitations and make me sick. Literally sick and gives me discomfort.
Tea have a very relaxing effect on me. It’s like a legal drug that I take everyday, and I always make sure I have a cuppa with me when I’m writing. It calm me down and inspire me.
I always take my tea with either dried roses, peach, lemon, sugar or honey, and never with milk. Do you have a special ways in drinking your favourite drink? Care to share with me?
Cleffairy: Fine, maybe I’m not that sober right now. Not quite enough sleep. Been burning the midnight oil. The sonnet applies to my loved ones as well. LOL…
“I’m truly, madly, deeply, passionately in love with you”
I think I just died and went to heaven for a couple of minutes after hearing those words. *SIGH* I’m completely hopeless. Hurl those words to me, and I’ll buy it…well…. maybe, maybe not. Depending on who would say that to me. But if those are the words spoken in the movies, hooooyeahhhh, I’ll definitely melt into a puddle of goo and beyond.
Who would have thought? That the fiery, lunatic fairy who rant and rave most of the time have quite a heart for fluff and romantic movies? Okay, maybe I’m exaggerating a little bit. I’m a romance author and IÂ married my first love, so get a clue already, will you? Romance authors are usually insane. Well, almost, I guess. I prefer to be known as eccentric.
Okay, most of you might be concern for my sanity by now. But fret not, I am still quite sane, and I’m talking about Letters To Juliet. Remember that movie I’ve talk about back then? I told you I was anticipating that movie like mad, and watched the trailer countless times, and this is it. I finally got to watch it online and was on cloud nine. I felt as if I’m in love again watching such a lighthearted summer romance movie.
I could have went and watch with my husband in the cinema if I want to. After all, it was released in Malaysia on 20th May 2010. It coincide with our 8th anniversary, but then again, I was too busy celebrating my real life romance to even consider going into the cinema for this movie. You know, you get the picture. The dimmed- lighted dinner in a quiet fancy restaurant… and the non-dinner in the dark. (Geez… it’s my anniversary, I don’t kiss or make out and tell, folks, so buzz off~!)
*SPOILER ALERT AHEAD, LEAVE IF YOU DON’T WANT SPOILERS*
Letters to Juliet is about Sophie Hall. She is a fact checker at The New Yorker magazine who dreams of becoming a writer, but her boss, Bobby, does not share her dreams and ambitions.
Sophie was annoyed, of course. Who wouldn’t? Pre-honeymoon is not supposed to be that way. To add cherry on top, Victor seems to be only interested in himself and what he does, and never listens to what Sophie have to say. Most of their conversation often ended up one-sided.
And while he is out one day, Sophie went sightseeing and comes across the house where Juliet Capulet supposedly lived and watches in awe as numerous people gather to write letters to Juliet about their loves and post them on Juliet’s wall. Sophie writes of this in her journal for a few hours and sits on a bench, waiting for closing time, to see what becomes of the letters.
A young Italian woman came to collect the letters, putting them all into a straw basket, and Sophie follows her to a restaurant where the woman meets with three other women, who reveal themselves to be ‘Juliet’s secretaries’, writing back to each of the letters she had collected earlier on.
The next day, Sophie helps Isabel, one of the secretaries, take the letters. A loose brick falls, revealing a crumpled old envelope. Sophie discovers it is a 1957 letter written by Claire, an English woman who while in Italy studying art, fell in love with Lorenzo Bartolini. When he asked her to elope with him, she did not show up. Feeling terrible with her decision she wrote to ‘Juliet’ about it and Sophie writes back to Claire.
A few days later, a young Englishman arrives. Charlie then reveals that because Sophie responded his grandmother is now here to find her love. When Sophie asks to meet Claire, Charlie says no, but Sophie follows him and is introduced to Claire who is more than happy to meet the ‘Juliet’ who wrote back to her.
Together, the three decide to embark on a journey to find all the Lorenzo Bartolinis near Siena, Italy where Claire says Lorenzo always enjoyed. The three meet many Lorenzo Bartolinis, but none of them seem to be the right one.
While traveling, Sophie and the grandmother and grandson learn about each other’s lives like that Charlie has an ex-girlfriend he hasn’t seen in a year, named Patricia, with Claire learning that Sophie’s mother abandoned her when she was nine and Sophie learning that Charlie’s parents died in a car crash when he was ten. Charlie, at first rude, is now attracted to her.
The three met many men named Lorenzo Bartolini, including one who has died. Seeing his grandmother cry, Charlie blames Sophie. Claire berates her grandson and tells him about Sophie’s mother, then she visits Sophie in her hotel room and comforts her. Charlie apologizes to Sophie who has gone out and laid down on the grass next to Charlie, and they kiss under the stars.
The next day, while driving back, Claire asks that they stop at a vineyard when she notices it is the vineyard that makes their favorite wine. There, she sees a young Italian man who looks exactly like Lorenzo.
Insisting it’s him, Sophie and Charlie went and ask him for his name, which he says is indeed Lorenzo Bartolini. Deciding it must be Lorenzo’s grandson, they ask to speak to the young man’s father, whose name is also Lorenzo. The middle-aged man says his elderly father is also Lorenzo Bartolini, and he was out riding his horse.
Charlie urges his grandmother to see if it’s the right Lorenzo, but Claire decides she doesn’t want to. Just then, the elder Lorenzo and it is revealed that he is indeed Claire’s long-lost love. The two was then reunited.
Lorenzo introduces the three to his family. Later, Sophie leaves to go back to Verona to find Victor. Claire tells Charlie not to wait fifty years before he discovers there is only one girl he loves. Charlie races after her bu he saw her hugging Victor, and so he left.
Back in New York, Sophie presents a story to her boss identical to Claire’s tale, and he tells her he is going to publish it. Excited, she rushes home. The next day at work, she gets an invitation to Claire and Lorenzo’s wedding.
She then breaks up with Victor at the kitchen of his Italian restaurant because she doesn’t love him anymore and goes to the wedding. At the end of the ceremony, she attempts to talk to Charlie, but believes a woman that is with him, Patricia is his girlfriend.
She hurries away to a balcony, but Charlie follows her. Sophie professes her love but tells him to go back to Patricia, whom he explains is his cousin, and not his ex-girlfriend he mentioned earlier on. He admits he is in love with Sophie. He attempts to climb up to kiss her like Romeo Montague but fell flat to the ground. Sophie hurries to him to check if he’s all right and they kiss.
As I’ve said… I’ve been anticipating this movie a month ago, and it was a pleasure to be able to watch the full movie, and I’d rate it 4 out of 5. If you like Harlequin Romance or Silhouette or even Mills and Boon, you’ll absolutely adore this. It’s almost 100% Harlequin-ish and Silhouette-ish, minus the hot and steamy sex scene, that is. The movie is rated PG-13.
And considering I’ve always have the hots for European men with accentuated British accent, this movie is something to die for, so I give this flick, a few thumbs up.
Cleffairy: I didn’t know love had an expiry date. I didn’t think they ever expired…
Women, as aging sets in, begin to experience a prominent drop in sex drive. This is largely due to a decline in the female hormones estrogen and also… testosterone.
Other factors that undermine female desire include childbirth, the onset of menopause, stress, depression, relationship conflicts, fatigue, poor self-image, and inability to reach screaming orgasm.
Men, when they hit certain age, would have to worry about Erectile Dysfunction as well, and this would affect their performance in bed and the desires to have sexual intercourse would decrease. But then again, usually men does not have to worry about ED and low sex drive til they hit 50s.
With the right attitude… and the right food, libido in men and women could be increase.
Here’s some sex food for thoughts:
Celery
While celery may not be the first food that comes to mind when you’re thinking sex, it can be a fantastic source food for sexual stimulation. This is because it contains androsterone, an odorless hormone released through male perspiration and turns women on.
How to enjoy this aphrodisiac : Celery is best eaten raw. Wash and cut some, and munch away. But if you hate to eat it raw, make chicken soup out of it, serve with Bloody Mary or even take it with some mayonnaise or tartar sauce.
Raw oysters
This is one of the classic aphrodisiacs. Oysters are high in zinc, which raises sperm and testosterone production. Oysters also contain dopamine, a hormone known to increase libido. And it’s undeniable that the experience of slurping a fresh raw oyster is rather erotic.
Try to squeeze it into your foreplay. Feed your spouse and have him/her feed you. The slippery taste sensation and the mere act of slurping on it should get you both in the mood.
How to enjoy this aphrodisiac: Scrub the shells thoroughly to get any dirt or bacteria off. Pry them open and place them on a bed of ice, squeeze some fresh lemon onto them if you like, and then start slurping away sexily.
Bananas
Bananas contain the bromelain enzyme, which is believed to increase libido and reverse impotence in men. Additionally, they are good sources of potassium and B vitamins like riboflavin, which increase the body’s overall energy levels.
How to enjoy this aphrodisiac: Place them on a dish in various states of undressing and have your lady slowly eat some for you. Then gobble yours down and get to work. Or, you can make some fried fritters out of them, or make them into desserts like banana split. Be sure to be generous with the chocolate sauce and ice cream, though. Chocolates are aphrodisiac as well.
Almonds
Almonds are a prime source of essential fatty acids. These are vital as they provide the raw material for a man’s healthy production of hormones. Additionally, the smell of almonds is purported to arouse passion in females. Try lighting some almond-scented candles to encourage her mood and snack on some yourself to store up energy for your performance.
How to enjoy this aphrodisiac: Eat them raw. Or, crush some fresh almonds and sprinkle them on your salad to get the energy you need. Or better still, get yourself a honeyed almond biscotti. Personally, I would have suggested finely pounded almond with milk and honey, but some people can’t take it too sweet, so if you don’t like to take sweet stuff, stick it to just plain almond.
Chocolate
Aside from the fact that chocolate is the surest way to a woman’s panties, chocolate contains theobromine, an alkaloid,which is very similar to caffeine.
It also contains phenylethylamine, a chemical believed to produce the feel good feeling.
So, when your woman talks about how good chocolate makes her feel, there is some scientific explanation behind it. In addition, dark chocolate has a massive amount of anti-oxidants, which are great for the body in general, as they help maintain the immune system.
How to enjoy this aphrodisic: No exact way. Just be creative. Squeeze some chocolate sauce onto your partner’s body and lick it away for all I care. Just be creative.
Eggs
Although not the most sensual of foods, eggs are high in vitamins B6 and B5. These help balance hormone levels and fight stress, two things that are crucial to a healthy libido. Eggs are also a symbol of fertility and rebirth. Some people will eat raw chicken eggs just prior to sex to increase libido and maximize energy levels.
How to enjoy this aphrodisiac: Have some caviar and a bit of champagne during your fun or gobble down some hard-boiled eggs beforehand. Or if you’re feeling romantic, you could make french toast for breakfast in bed.
And last but not least…
Mangoes, peaches and strawberries
What can be more fun than sinking your teeth into a dripping, sticky and honeyed fruits? All of the fruits listed above are erotically suggestive and can be fun to use amidst foreplay. Try dribbling the juices over your bodies and licking up the residue as an erotic game.
How to enjoy this aphrodisiac: Peel the mango, cut the peach and slice up some strawberries, and feed your partner while having oral sex.
Cleffairy: Why not have food and sex together? It’ll make a yummy making love session.
“I’ve been in love with you all of my life. Couldn’t even change it if I wanted to.”
Those were the words, that made my heart melt and my soul sing. Those were the words, beautifully written in The Time Traveler’s Wife, and made me curl all night long on the bed, beneath the blanket, savouring the good book, in ebook version.
The Time Traveler’s Wife, written by Audrey Niffenegger is a lyrical love story between Henry and Clare, albeit an unusual one suffused with vivid images of the past and the future.
It’s a little bit confusing for me in the beginning, but it’s really a good book, and once I got a grip on the story, I barely take my eyes off from it. The feeling it gave me is absolutely different from Jodi Picoult’s My Sister’s Keeper. While My Sister’s Keeper made me fast-forward a few pages and skip some part, the Time Traveller’s wife doesn’t have such effect with me.
Henry has a rare genetic condition, something that’s fictionally known as Chronus Displacement Disorder. He time-travels within his own lifetime, into his own past and future, yet dwells in the present. Clare has been in love with Henry all of her life…a feeling that has been developed as a result of his time traveling.
Henry and Clare develop a bond that transcends time and logic, bound to memory and promise. Since Henry’s traveling is involuntary, they learn to deal with life’s ambiguity in a deeper sense than most couples. Within this strange constraint, Clare’s affection assumes a mystical tone and she accepts their situation unconditionally, year after year committing her heart into Henry’s keeping.
The Time Traveler’s Wife… a beautiful story of love that transcends time and dimension. Henry and Clare’s lifelong love affair does not come without a cost, for nothing worth having is easily won.
The powerful emotional ending of this novel contains its share of shattering revelations, brutal slashes of real life and its consequences. Niffenegger compassionately develops her unique characters with the grace to accept their difficult circumstances as well as their blessings.
Don’t be deceived by the easy charm of Henry and Clare’s relationship; they will draw you into their small circle, make you complicit with their dreams and disappointments.
They will break your heart. They broke and shattered mine, and they made me treasure and cherish what I have now. Love…is a keepsake. Love is for keep. Love should be unconditional and the present, is truly a gift.. That is what I learned from The Time Traveler’s Wife.
This is one book, that I would not miss for the world. A devastatingly well written science fiction romance.
This book, is something I would gladly share with all of you out there. To get a hold of your own ebook (pdf) copy of this wonderful masterpiece, kindly email me at cleffairy@gmail.com , and I will send it to you as soon as I can.
Anyway, for you lazy bums out there, the novel is also adapted into a movie. Check out the trailer.
And if you’re interested, you can watch the full movie HERE.
The movie is much more lighter than the novel. The novel is much more intense, and while I prefer to read than watch, but I must say that the movie is also captivating in it’s own way. Have a look, and have you own say.
Cleffairy: Love is a keepsake. It’s for keep. Nothing could destroy it if you don’t allow it.
It’s 20th May 2010, and it’s been 8 years since I first saw my husband. I was young. Very young. 8 years ago, I was just 17 going on 18. Barely legal, I must say, and we have come a long way.
Yeah, folks, it’s our 8 years anniversary today. And it’s been a hell of a roller coaster ride. Dangerous, exhilarating, and full of shock and surprises. There are good and bad times, but I’m not going to share all my X-rated details here.
I would spare your innocent eyes and ears. I may write mushy stuff for my novels, but…I’m afraid, I don’t tell my own love story very well. Perhaps, when I’m old and have nothing else to do, I might document that.
Anyway, I like to do meaningful things on meaningful dates. And to commemorate my 8 years anniversary with my husband, I’ve changed the layout to something more light on the eyes. It’s blue and much more calmer that the depressing black that I used earlier. 😀
This, signify my hope for a peaceful and a happier relationship with my husband. I hope to celebrate life…(not wait for people to celebrate life for me… as in ‘celebrating someone’s life’ in a funeral) and no more nonsense. I’m sick and tired of those. I want to feel alive, while I’m still young. And yes, from this day forward, to hell those people who are not even worth my regard.
Time, and death, is a funny thing, ladies and gentlemen. things that happened last year made me realized that time is not always on our side, and Death may come knocking at our doorstep anytime it pleases him. Life is too short to be wasted. take it from me… chase your dreams and live life to the fullest while you still can. I’ve made it my very own personal mission this year. Living life to the fullest, and living my dreams.
I’m not a fan of fancy designs. No… I hate those. I hurt my eyes and it annoys me to my very core. I’ve always adored those simple designs that does not look messy. I like this one. And I hope, it’s pleasant to your eyes too.
20th May 2010 is also the date that I chose to launch my book in the US, and it’ll be available for sale, finally, after all the midnight oil I burned. No… it’s no coincidence that the book launch shared the same date as my anniversary.LOL…fiery as I may sound sometimes, I suppose, I’m still a romantic at heart, eh? I want my book to have the same anniversary as me and my husband so that 20th May would be much more meaningful from this year forward. 😀 Another thing for me to celebrate next year. My book anniversary. 😛
I’m blabbering, aren’t I? Please excuse me. It’s been rather a whirlwind of a day. It was my husband’s birthday yesterday as well, and so here I am…wishing him not only a happy birthday, but happy anniversary as well.
Cleffairy: To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.
This is one of the time of the year where I wish I’m rich enough to buy lavish gifts to pamper my friends. I am not rich, this is the best I can do…writing a birthday dedication to not only one, but two.
First of all, here’s wishing a happy belated birthday to Mommy Ling, a pretty, young mother of two. I did not really know her earlier on, but I was pleasantly surprised to discover that she’s just around my age, and sweet to boot, unlike me, whose mood is always sourish at all times, and with a temper that can match those live volcano that can erupt anytime.
Yeah, I’m not the kind who can be provoked and I hardly have any sense of humour, but I believe, Mommy Ling is the sweet and docile kind. Mommy Ling is a full time working mother, and therefore, it is quite hard for me to ahemm…to drag her into any of my evil schemes cuz I’m quite flexible with time for being a freelance while she’s not. I do look forward , however, to turn her into an evil being like me.
LMAO… Okay, that’s a bad joke. Mommy Ling would probably run away with the speed that puts an F1 car to shame when she saw this, but what I wanna express here is that I’m looking forward to meet this sweet lady with nice temperament. It would be nice to meet with her daughters too. 😀 I hoped she had a blessed birthday and more peaceful and happy years to come.
Happy belated birthday, Mommy Ling. Stay young and beautiful, and be happy always.
I am bad at writing birthday wishes, am I not? I hope most of you are not bored to death yet, cuz I have another dedication to make, and this time, to my long lost evil sister.
I happened to stumble upon this long lost sister of mine who is definitely my partner in crime earlier this year. She’s beautiful and fiery in nature as well. And in many ways, she’s just like me. We both shared a lot of same interest and I enjoyed her presence in my life immensely. And being the younger one, I get to be pampered and spoiled rotten by this elder evil sister of mine.
She may not admit that she’s been pampering me and the ones she care lately, and she even would threatened to whack my butt silly for even saying this, but I know best. She really do care. Her love for friends is always genuine and unblemished. I love her for that, despite of her evil-ness.
I am not quite sure if she wants me to reveal her identity for she’s quite a shy and low profile person. I’ll just play it safe and spare myself from the agony of suffering her ‘I’ll crucify you for this!”. By doing so, I’m also sparing my innocent readers the gory details of my… crucification. Yeooowch! (No… I was joking about that. She wouldn’t do that. She’s above killing, believe me.)
But I can’t help but write this for her, as she’s always nice to me, and she’s always there for me during my darkest hour. She was there for me when I was distraught and showered me with wisdom on how to deal with it. She also gave me comfort when I needed it most, and gave me inspiration on how to be a more evil being. She’s just an angel in the form of human being. The kind who will always be there for you and care for you when you needed her the most. A not so sweet, but very caring and kind lady. 😀
She’s one of those gift God sent to me, and I couldn’t help but feel so blessed with her existence in my life, for my life would be dark, boring, and unexciting without her in my life.
So here… Happy Birthday, Jie Jie. You were never just a friend. But a big sister to me. 😀 I’ll pray so that God will bestow you everlasting happiness and peace, and repay all your good deeds in your afterlife.
A big birthday hug for both you, Jie… and Mommy Ling. 😀
Cleffairy: Some friends come and go. But a load others are there to stay for good. Treasure, and cherish them.
ps: I’m posting this earlier, Jie. I wanna be the first to greet you. But looks like somebody else beat me to it. 😛 And sorry for the late greetings over here, Mommy Ling. Do 2 in 1 birthday greeting more fun lah. (Wokay, I wasn’t completely honest, you can kick my ass for being lazy. I know I am lazy!)Kakaka
I don’t intend to write something like this. No…never. It’s not like me to write something like this. But I can no longer keep it a secret. What secret? Well, someone bought me a thong!
Very cute dangling thing with thin brown straps and angel and birds on it. Gosh…Â I simply love it. I’m gonna use it over, and over again. It is just, so, so sexy. My very first thong. I never had any thongs before. This is the first time I laid my eyes on a thong. Just looking at my new thong makes me feel so loved and appreciated. It makes me feel like a very sexy woman.
I’m not gonna tell you who bought me the thong. That particular someone wants to be anonymous. After all, thongs are very personal gifts, are they not? Gosh… I never expected anyone to give me a thong as a gift. This is a first for me. My very first time ever receiving such a personal gift, and I am so happy.
This special someone is just like the angel on my thong. Knew exactly what I’ll appreciate and treasure. Knew my desire, and my needs, and therefore, gave me a thong with thin straps for me to use to my heart content. The fact that the thong is handmade makes this present more special.
Do you guys wanna see the thong I mention? Scroll down to have a look at it. It is just sexy!
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No.. it is not undies… lol…it’s a thong… a book thong. Do you know what a book thong is? LOL… I didn’t at first. I thought it’s some sort of undies to be worn to cover your ahemm… private parts to seduce someone or to make yourself feel arousingly sexy.
A book thong is a piece of beautifully crafted bookmark used to mark your book page with style. It’s just like a piece of jewelry for books. Book Thongs never scar the page, never fall out, and snugly hold your last line. They make a stack of books sparkle with beauty. Isn’t it just sexy? LOL…I think it’s sexy. It takes my breath away. And I love it! LOL…
The thong is a perfect gift for an avid reader like me. Thank you very, very much O my darling angel. I really feel sexy and appreciated. 😀 I’ll be sure to use this dangling sexy thing whenever I read my sexy books. I’m sure it’ll bring a new height to my reading. LMAO…
Sex gets hotter, and better with age. As of late, everyone has been complaining how hot they are, and it’s driving me insane, because sometimes, hot weather ‘inspire’ me. And when I am inspired, I write more than usual, and when I write more than usual, there’s tendency that I will write something that is not appropriate for minors.
Fine, fine, it’s not the weather, I admit it, but I tend to get aroused by my own writing, especially those mushy scenes in my own novel. 🙁 I am not quite sure how many authors out there seems to have problem with this, but I know those in my writing group tends to get carried away and gets aroused by their own writing, and couldn’t seems to stop writing ‘hot stuff’ and their novel would be in the danger of turning into literotica.
Anyway… I was writing a scene in my latest novel where the characters are standing in front of Bocca De La Verita. And the antagonist is worrying about entering her 30s when she began to ‘invade’ my mind. Yes… women in their 20s or late 20s often worry about going into their 30s. They felt old, unattractive and not to mention worried about their sexual performance.
You see, most women would worry that their sexual performance and satisfaction would decrease as they hit their 30s. They would worry that their partner would not desire them as much, and automatically… it will affect their mind and their libido would decrease.
Little did most women know that sex, actually gets better with age. Being experienced in bed is actually an advantage, of course, but what I want to talk about here is that there’s studies that indicate women could possibly get a G-spot orgasm easier in their 30s rather than in their 20s. This is indeed something to be looking forward to, isn’t it? LOL…
There is some evidence that the intensity of a woman’s G-spot orgasm is mediated by the hormone estrogen. Most young women under 30 find clitoral orgasms to be more powerful because, due to their relatively high estrogen levels, their vaginal lining becomes too thick to allow direct stimulation of their G-spot nerves.
As the estrogen level begins to decline in women during their 30s, the vaginal lining becomes thinner and the G-spot becomes more accessible during fingering or penetration. That’s why most women feel that they begin to peak sexually in their early to mid-30s.
Anyway, ladies and gentlemen, this is just a warm up. 😛 Next article, is the real thing, and I’m going to write about how to master a woman’s G-spot in order to give her intense G-spot orgasm. The next article is actually a request, and I have somehow forgotten about it til last night when I was researching for my latest novel in progress.
A friend of mine had requested me on ‘someone’s behalf’ to write about squirting not long ago. However, if one wants to write about ‘squirting’, one would have to talk about G-spot orgasm and stimulation.
Consider yourself being forewarned. Kindly stay away if you’re afraid of heat and not in the mood for some sizzling romance.
Cleffairy: When it gets too hot to handle, just strip it off and do some strip tease.
While I was beach combing with my husband in Teluk Batik on 15th February 2010, we found this big, beautiful seashell.
Might not be that big to all of you, but it’s very big to me, cuz when we’re doing the combing, it’s very hard for us to find big and perfect seashells.
I’ve always wanted a big seashell, but all these years, there’s not much luck. This is by far the biggest one I’ve ever found while beach-combing.
Part of the reason why I’ve been wanting to collect seashells is not just because I missed the sea and everything that’s related to it, but because I wanted to make shell castle as well.
Okay, what is shell castle, you ask me? Shell castle is this:
Shell castle is an arrangement made of seashells as well as coral debris that has been wash ashore.
You see, when I was a little girl, I used to make shell castle with my father after our beach-combing sessions. And craft making session turned into a round-robin storytelling session with my father around. I wrote the story down somewhere, but I couldn’t remember where I put the mini novella.
I still remember the story though. It started with…There’s once a princess who lived by the sea each summer. The princess often gets lonely during her summer holiday because people tend to befriend her for her status rather than herself, and so, every night, when her royal family members are busy partying and dancing away with their suitors, she would walk beneath the moonlight to search for seashells instead, so that she could listen to the ‘music’ that came from those seashells instead of listening to insincere flattery by her suitors who wants nothing but her money and status.
Many summers pass by, and her seashells collections grew, and she did not know what to do with it. She made many wind-chimes out of those seashells, and the music that came out of those seashells wind-chimes made the shape- shifting Sea Prince feel curious, and therefore, he transformed into a seagull and flew towards the princess’s window one fateful night. He befriended her, and soon after, he fell in love with her.
It’s been years since the first time the prince became her friend, and he wanted to make the sad and lonely princess happy, and so, he told her, if she made a small castle out of seashells and made a wish under the beneath the starry sky on the night of a harvest moon, her wish will come true.
And so, the princess did. She made a beautiful shell castle out of it, and wished for someone who loved her for who she is, and not what she is. And she wanted a kiss from that special someone.
The prince, who was nearby when she made the wish blushed to the root of his hair. Initially, he thought she would wish for something else and he would give it to her, and now, not knowing how to make her wish come true, he appeared before her in his human form, and told her the truth about everything…that he was actually the seagull, and he’s deeply sorry for not being able to make her wish come true.
The princess wasn’t amused by the fact that the prince had been deceiving her all this while in the form of the seagull, because she told him many personal things to him, and it embarrassed her. And it embarrassed her still because she made such wishes. Worst thing is, she fell in love with the handsome Sea Prince at the first sight as well.
She was angry with him for sneaking into her heart and deceiving her, and anger got the better of her, and she never wanted to see the prince ever again as she felt cheated.
She felt that the prince must have been having fun listening how foolishly she made wishes that might not come true, and he must be laughing at her naivety for even believing that her dreams would come true with just making shell castle.
The prince taught she was angry because he couldn’t make her dreams come true. So he latched onto her hand, and pulled her back and looked deep into her eyes. He then tell her, he could make any men fall in love with her and be in love with her for who she is, but he is not willing to do it because he was deeply, madly in love with her, and he wants her for himself, and he couldn’t make her dreams come true because he doesn’t want to see her in another man’s arms.
The princess was shocked with his confession, of course. Initially, she thought her feelings are unrequited. And now that she knew that the prince is in love with her too, she told him to kiss her.
Much to her annoyance, he refused, and before she got mad at his refusal, he quickly tell her that he couldn’t kiss her, because he was cursed ever since he was born by his evil stepmother, and his kiss is poisonous and deadly to those who does not love him in return.
She smiled at his explanation then. And he was completely stunned and horrified when she stand on the tip of her toes and kissed him passionately on his lips before he could even stop her.
The Prince was surprised that nothing happened when she pulled away from him, except for her cheeks turning a few shades redder as a result of her bluntness. This is a first for him, as other girls whom he kissed, all dropped dead.
He smiled at her and dropped onto his knees and knelt before her. He then proposed to her. Being a cheeky princess she is, she told him that if he could make her a castle made of seashells from them to live in over night, she will marry him. And he did build a castle made from seashells for them to live in, with his magic.
The prince and the princess gets married of course, like every other fairy tale. But before they could live a happily ever after, their lives was filled with adventure… there are battles with giant squid monsters, incestuous and jealous stepmother as well as overprotective father.
There’s more to the story apart from the romantic ones that revolves around seashells and shell castles… there’s political disagreement and whatnot due to their marriage, but that’s another story to be told. But it is safe to say, the princess’s life was never boring and lonely . So I guess, all is good.
Cleffairy: To have a romantic and a long lasting marriage is just like building a shell castle. It takes a lot of patience and love to build one.
